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9:30 P.M. - Thursday, May. 17, 2007
Slippery slope
I was thinking today about how our lives change over the years, I am in awe of those that find a life partner and remain together until "death due us part." I have heard people tell of a life adventure with their soul mate telling no matter the size of the hurtles in life they make it over together.

There is no "easy" life no matter how financially secure, healthy, or just plain lucky one might be. These people still battle the same demons other people deal with that have lived a life of what appears to be one miss step after another. Love for some is forever, once love fills their heart no matter which direction their paths go devotion keeps them connected.

Others find love and even may think that the situation for an encounter was in part due to Devine intervention. How does one explain after many years of oneness that there is no affection left to bind them? A day may come when burdens create a mountain between them. Communication might long been silenced the truth to painful to be talked about. They simply walk away from on another.

Some people realize there is no backing up; the silence deafened them and too much damage done.

I have heard much talk about sharing goals, dreams, being on the same page, going in the same direction, many ways to define how two people stay connected. Others before they are aware of what has happened find themselves on separate paths. They have chosen two directions and neither understands the other. It doesn't appear to happen in one night but over years.

Some may try to leave their chosen path and walk with their partner but that road may be unsettling to another's soul. It might be as if ones spirit no longer dances when walking a road that is uninspiring, now choosing to go back to their path they find within they are at peace but very much alone.

This may be the time in life where some make a decision rather to stay along side of someone that long ago were traveling in the same direction or to feel as if they are cheating themselves by walking together feeling the cavern that now exists between them.

Life's changes, life's choices, living at times become that very slippery slope.

Sandyz

 

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